They will hear us roar:

ME FIRST.
NOT SORRY.

Join the movement of women who are putting themselves first — in relationships, in careers, and at home — and never apologizing for it..

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Welcome to Me First Club

A monthly membership of live group coaching, accountability, and private community for midlife women rediscovering and putting themselves first.

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$27 / mo

We’ve been rewarded for staying quiet and invisible. So we …

say yes when we mean no

feel endlessly guilty for spending money on ourselves

wait to do anything until we “feel” confident

compare ourselves to women who “have it all together”

long for what could have been


But no longer.

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You are someone who does not …

stay quiet

take another backseat

play it safe again

stand down so others feel comfortable

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It’s Time to Roar, Ladies.

BECOME A MEMBER

$27 / mo

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When You Join
Me First Club

You immediately become a part of a group of women who are collectively rediscovering their identities and putting themselves first.

Every week, we gather for coaching, conversations, and simple daily practices that help you live the idea of “Me First.”

Bring your authentic self, your dreams, your hurdles, and we’ll work through them together.

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  • Kristin's straightforward approach is delivered with humor and humility. She helped me uncover some barriers, and then remove them, with kindness, firmness, and patience.

    — Sarah N

  • Kristin is a real force of nature. She brings huge energy, warmth, and conviction to the work she’s doing with Me First Club, and it’s clear she’s building something meaningful.

    — Ifeoma N.

  • Kristin has a way of asking the right questions and guiding conversations so that the realizations come naturally, which made the experience incredibly meaningful and effective.

    — Suzie T.

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Inside Me First Club

Weekly Live Coaching Calls

Every Tuesday, we have fun on Zoom all together. I lead sessions where we talk through real situations and practice putting ourselves first.

The B.O.L.D. Framework

This is what makes Me First Club different. My B.O.L.D. method is a clear, actionable way to move toward what you want without overwhelming or burning you out.

Fire the B*tch

Yes, I said it. As part of my B.O.L.D. framework, I teach you how to deal with your inner critic. (Spoiler: that’s the b*tch we’re talking about.)

A Weekly Rhythm That Fits Into Your Life

Monday: Me First Intention
Start the week by setting one bold intention for yourself.

Wednesday: Bold Brew Café
Your midweek reset. Grab your coffee and show up as you are. No agenda. No filter. Just real talk with your people.

Friday: Raise Your Glass
We reflect on our Monday intentions and celebrate the brave, beautiful “Me First” moments from the week.

Simple Tools for Daily “Me First” Decisions:

A Me First Club Exclusive: The “Future Me Thanks You” tool

Prompts to help you reflect productively

Simple, guided check-ins to help you stay aware

BECOME A MEMBER

$27 / mo

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What Happens When You Start Saying “Me First”

  • You start asking for what you want, and not apologizing for it

  • You stop over-explaining your decisions

  • You set boundaries that protect your time, energy, and attention

  • You make decisions without spiralling or second-guessing

  • You stop waiting until you “feel confident” — you do it anyway

  • You carve out time for hobbies and people you love, but not out of obligation

  • You don’t worry about disappointing people when it means protecting yourself

  • You speak up in conversations where you used to stay quiet

  • You start making choices your future self will thank you for

  • You realize that putting yourself first is not selfish — it’s self-respect

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I’m Kristin. And I’m no guru.

Gurus sell you secrets and potions and quick fixes. (I know — I’ve bought them.)

And it’s aaaalllll bullshit.

Want to know the “secret” to living a fulfilled, outspoken, confident life?

Consistency.
Accountability.
Showing up.
Being uncomfortable.

I built Me First Club as a haven and accelerator for women who never put themselves first. And yes, it takes work to unravel centuries of constraint.

Here, we do that work.

Join me in the movement of women who aren’t afraid to say, “Me First.”

♡ Kristin

The Rules of Me First Club

BE FUN

It’s what makes life worth living!

BE BOLD

We don’t apologize before speaking. We don’t shy away from our instincts. We share with confidence and joy.

BE REAL

We speak honestly, not perfectly. We are always rooted in love and respect.

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FAQs

  • How much 1:1 time do I get with you, Kristin?

    Me First Club is primarily a group experience. Each week we gather for live coaching inside our Bold Circle, where you can bring real situations, questions, and decisions you’re navigating.

    Some women choose to share and get coached live, while others prefer to listen and learn from the conversation.

    Either way, you’ll have direct access to my guidance every week.

  • Can I cancel anytime?

    Yes! Me First Club is a monthly membership, and you can cancel anytime. Stay for as long as the club supports your growth.

  • Is Me First Club only for midlife women?

    I designed Me First Club for midlife women (I am one!), BUT …

    If the message of “Me First. Not Sorry.” resonates with you, you are absolutely welcome here.

  • What if I’m new to personal growth or identity work?

    This is the perfect place for you! We don’t judge each other’s paths. Me First Club gives you simple, practical ideas that move you toward where you want to be. The community is incredibly supportive.

  • What if I’m shy or nervous about speaking in groups?

    That’s completely okay! You are never required to speak or share in coaching calls. Many members start by simply listening and observing, and still get enormous value from hearing other women navigate similar situations.

    (I’ll bet, though, that you’ll fall in love with the other members and naturally become more comfortable over time.)

  • Do I have to attend everything live?

    While I recommend attending live as much as you can, it’s not a requirement. All live calls are recorded so you can watch them later.

  • How is Me First Club different from other coaching memberships or self-help communities?

    I find many “self-help spaces” have a lot of information, no implementation. That’s where Me First Club is different.

    We are a tight-knit, highly supportive community that talks through real scenarios as I coach on how to handle them with a “Me First” mentality. In the club, you’re not only learning, but you’re putting it into practice.

Become a Member today

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